ABOUT THE AUTHOR AND THIS SITE
PREVIOUS GUYS
Did I mention Guy #5 had a boyfriend?
Well, he did and a few days after spending a night at Guy #5’s place while his boyfriend was away on business, he introduced me to this boyfriend. In doing so, he also introduced me to the concept of open relationships.
Guy #5’s boyfriend would become Guy #6, in case you didn’t see that one coming. It would be my first ever threesome.
Guest starring in a couple’s sex life can be intense. It will teach you there’s no such thing as “just sex”. Just because a relationship is open, does not mean sex isn’t an issue.
And while the idea of a threesome might seem like a good one in movies and fantasies, the reality of it is that, at any given moment, one person will get less attention than the other two. That’s just a mathematical certainty. Add even a smidgen of insecurity to a threesome and you got yourself a cock fight.
As I was doing things with Guy #6, he would very often look at Guy #5, his eyes begging permission for whatever he was doing with me.
Although Guy #5 was very involved in our threesome at first, the night ended with me and Guy #6 having sex, while Guy #5 was sitting upright on his side of the bed, eating cookies, passively waiting for the sex to be over.
Granted, it wasn’t a cock fight in the traditional sense, meaning there weren’t any direct casualties. People did get hurt, though. At least, I think they did. I felt hurt after Guy #5 had grabbed his bowl of chocolate chip snacks, signaling that the party was over. Perhaps it was wrong of me to continue having a go at Guy #6. Maybe I should have called it quits when cookie #1 entered the scene.
At the time, Guy #5 and Guy #6 had been together for over half a decade. Sex may become a commodity over the years, but intimacy doesn’t. Despite the pure sexual tension I had seen in gay porn, to me it seemed impossible to tread on another couple’s sex life without trespessing on their love life as well.
As I was busy performing oral duties on Guy #6, his boyfriend actually offered us both a cookie. Led by a different kind of hunger, I rejected his generous offer. Guy #6 did have one, though. I guess he wasn’t in a position to reject anything his boyfriend threw at him.
In all fairness, I should point out it’s perfectly possible that the cause of all the tension was me. I had been nervous from the moment I realized I was going to be part of a threesome. I was afraid my relative sexual inexperience would be a factor. I wondered if perhaps there was some kind of “threesome etiquette” I ought to know about. Perhaps my own insecurities had transposed onto Guy #5 and Guy #6.
Then again, who in their right mind starts eating chocolate chip cookies in the midst of a threesome?
I guess sex is always an emotional experience. It’s part of what can make it fun. In movies and fantasies at least.
As you might expect from a site called 168guys.com, Guy #5 and Guy #6 weren’t my last threesome. After my first experience I concluded it was an area worth exploring, but not chasing.
Somehow Guy #5 and Guy #6 had struck the right balance with me.
Relationship summary:
LENGTH: 7 years and counting
FORMAT: Sex date followed by friendship that lasts till this day
SEX SCORE (0 sitting next to a smelly person on the subway and 10 being the best sex ever): 6
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Very nice bblog you have here
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Yes, it has definitely been my experience too: in threesomes there is always one gay too much :) The only possible exception being two friends (not boyfriends) actively fucking the third, new boy on his both ends :)
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Well I can tell you put some thought into it;)
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I’ve always wondered how the semantics of a threesome worked – needless to say, if I ever have one I am most definitely bringing snacks for intermittent lulls in the action. Awesome blog by the way; what a delightful find this morning.
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I guess having some snacks at hand can come in handy at the most unexpected times. Thank you very much for the compliment!
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