Guy #51 – Once, you go black.

A lot of Guys these days take offense to people that write about certain preferences on their dating profiles.

Not into Asians
Looking for black cock
Latinos move to the front of the line

I never got why any of this is offensive.

Personally, I’m not into black Guys. It’s not that I don’t want to want them. They can be gorgeous. I’m just not into them sexually. Whether the preference is conditioned or innate I don’t know. All I know is that black guys seldom turn me on.

That doesn’t mean I would ever put something like that on my dating profile.

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I actually had a very nice date with a black Guy once.
Guy #51 was a lawyer. I asked him questions about how to get away with murder. It wasn’t really the kind of law he specialized in, but he went along in pondering various crime scenarios with me.

The reason I ended up at Guy #51’s house was simple. I had set myself on a mission.

It was my mission to have decent sex with a black Guy at least once.

It took me all but an hour to hook up with the first attractive black Guy I found online.

The sex was interesting.

I know from experience Asians tend to have smaller genitalia. Guy #51 confirmed another stereotype for me. There’s size and then there’s size. There’s penis and then there’s Cape Canaveral.

Impressed as I was, I didn’t really know how to handle it. Having done so many Asians I felt like a hairdresser whose comb had just been replaced by a brush cutter. I was impressed, but equally inept.

I very much enjoyed being with Guy #51, but mostly because he was the kind of lawyer that would help a stranger get away with murder.

Things were very cuddly for a sex date. It’s the best I could do. It was nice being intimate with Guy #51, but it never quite turned me on.

So many of our preferences are variables we have so little control over: cuteness, eye color, hair color, body type, dick size. I always live under the assumption I know my preferences, yet I often find myself surprised by the people I am attracted to.

I don’t understand why it would be racist to have a sexual taste in race, but I also don’t get why anyone would rule anyone out.

To be honest, after going black once I didn’t go back. I didn’t consciously avoid having sex with black people. It just never happened again, nor did I pursue it as avidly as that one time with Guy #51.

The universe gravitates me to the less endowed for some reason. I wonder what that says about me.



Relationship summary:

LENGTH: 3 hours
FORMAT: Sex date
SEX SCORE (0 = The Hindenburg disaster <–> 10 = The best sex ever): 7.5



  1. I think there can be hot guys of any “race, color, or creed.” I don’t think I’d ever go for a redhead, though. Maybe cause there’s so many gingers in my family. Who knows?

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  2. I personally believe there is something inbuilt in us to find a certain type attractive, I have tried different men, but my ex husband, an ex boyfriend and my current partner have all been tall, slightly, tanned and dark haired, very different personalities but the looks are the same, if they didn’t turn me on then the relationships wouldn’t of worked for very long.

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  3. We are complex creatures with many factors influencing how we are wired and what attracts us. You have made some very interesting and thoughtful journeys with others. I like to think of these as little serendipities, sometimes they last a long time, sometimes not so much. The important thing is to be open, to experience, to learn, and to share these loving moments with others who are open to us as well. Most likely we won’t change our wiring, and that’s OK. We probably will never fully understand why we are attracted to go on these various journeys with others – at least it keeps life interesting! That’s a good thing.

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    1. ‘Serendipities’ are the perfect word to describe dates like these. (Sex) dates are a perfect way to meet people you otherwise wouldn’t have crossed paths withs, people with wholly different backgrounds and lifestyles than your own…and sometimes even people who could help you get away with murder;)

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