Guy #149 – The most forgettable of them all…

Do you really remember all the people you ever had sex with? It’s a question I get asked a lot. While I try to be 100% sure this blog tells the story of every Guy I ever had sex with, I may have forgotten one or two of my dates over the years. When I […]

Guy #148 – Three out of three…

If planet Earth houses 7 billion people, it’s safe to say a few hundred million of those people are Guys who enjoy mating with other Guys. On the other hand, of all the hundreds of millions of gay Guys this planet has to offer, frustratingly few of them set up camp on remote tropical paradises. […]

Guy #90 – The logistics of getting a naked stranger in my bed…

Scoring a sex date is often said to be easy. The truth is that getting a naked stranger in your bed is a logistical nightmare. As with life evolving on a planet, so many factors need to line up perfectly for random sex to even have a remote chance of happening. For starters, you have […]

Guys #40, #41, #42, #43, #44 and #45 – To the moon and back…

        Explorers are never in it for the destination. Think about it. Neil Armstrong didn’t fly to the moon because it’s such a great place. Destinationwise, the moon is the last place anyone wants to end up. It’s the same with parts of my sex life. For a while I was in […]

Guy #39 – The lie that was his selfie…

        Selfies can be deceptive. I’ve come across internet profiles from men that go by one and the same picture for years at an end. It’s because they only have that one picture in which they look good. I don’t trust profiles with only one picture. Guy #39 taught me. Guy #39 […]

Guy #36 – Pain relief…

        Guys #20 through #48 all guest starred in my life in the summer of 2009, when I spent three months in Toronto. Whatever I had going with Guys #20 to #48, each and every ‘relationship’ had an expiry date. A very big part of me resented the fact I was to […]

Guy #32 and #33 – Stroke that ego…

        There’s one very simple moral to every story here on 168guys.com: Love and sex are inseparable. If you’re looking for sex you’re looking for love. While quite a few gay people told me they enjoy reading this blog, some have trouble accepting its message. When I look around it’s as if […]

Guy #28 – Parking lot purgatory…

        Nothing is quite as depressing as sex in a car on a parking lot in broad daylight. First of all, most cars are not designed to have sex in. They’re an ergonomic disaster when it comes to intertwining your body with that of someone else. Second, I was constantly on the […]

Guy #27 – Recreationship…

        Sex is a bit like drugs. If you know how to use drugs wisely, a lot of them can be fun. Sex is the one drug we should embrace as a society. It is pretty well established that the more people smoke weed, the less people get upset about it. It’s […]

Guy #26 – Commitment is not a choice…

        Gays and monogamy. Sometimes it seems the two go together like alcohol and a hangover. Commitment can be a wonderful thing, but it requires a lot of self esteem for it to be wonderful. I don’t think Guy #26 had a lot of that to go around. I never met the […]

Guy #25 – The man with the beard, the jaded lighting guy and the harbinger of glucose…

        They say prostitution is the world’s oldest profession, but porn must have followed suit soon afterward. Porn lets us step into a world where our fantasies can become reality. That can make it a wonderful product. Granted, these are usually not the kind of fairytales you talk about during Thanksgiving dinner […]

Guy #24 – What’s love got to do with it?

        Over the years I’ve come to the conclusion there’s no such thing as just sex. I met some gay people who seem slightly offended when I suggest their latest dark room encounter has a lot of value for them somehow. For some reason people have trouble embracing the fact that people […]

Guy #23 – Chubby, bearded and oh so sweet…

        Your sex life is a bit like a box of chocolates. You never know which one you’re gonna get. But you do know you want more, because chocolate just so happens to be addictive like nicotine. Or maybe that’s just me. Personally, I like experience in the broadest sense of the […]

Guy #22 – My looks matter too…

        It can’t be denied some of the guys you find on Craigslist are hot. Guy #22 was one of those guys. In fact, he was the hottest guy I had ever been with up till then. And I was already at a point where that meant something. At first I considered […]

Guy #21 – Looks matter…

        There’s a big difference between a body and a face. A body can be shaped. A human being can survive on blueberries, bananas, rice and oatmeal. Really, if you don’t mind bidding farewell to pasta and cramming out a hundred sit-ups every day, getting a nice body isn’t that big of […]

Guy #20 – Going supernova…

        Guy #20 marked the first time I ever had sex in Canada. Toronto, to be precise. All of my previous sexual experiences had taken place either in the closet or in a small country with only one gay club. Now I had arrived in a city big enough to have its […]

Guy #19 – The quickest of quickies…

        If a guy grabs you by the balls while you’re peeing into a urinal and you let him, does that count as sex? I guess technically it could count as the quickest of quickies, clocking in at 5.4 seconds of absolute foreplay. Even in a filthy public washroom Guy #19 was […]

Guy #18 – Sexual fast food…

        The first time Guy #18 kissed me his mouth swallowed my lips like a hungry octopus. It wasn’t good. The last time he kissed me it was like floating through space and feeling at home at the same time. It was considerably better. In fact, all the things Guy #18 and […]

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