Guy #197 and #198 – Orgy politics…

It’s always nice to be invited to an orgy. You may not be in the mood…

Guy #184 and #185 – Spread love, not scabies…

1. Intuition It’s knowing what you don’t know you know yet. It’s the most unreliable advice…

Guy #172 and #173 – Quitting smoking is easy. I do it all the time…

Gay saunas. A lot of my stories take place in a gay sauna, even though I…

Guy #169 – When being yourself is easy…

Being yourself is both the easiest and the hardest thing to do. And usually, we opt…

Guy #164 – Attractiveness means nothing. And everything.

Here’s the thing with being attractive: It doesn’t really mean anything. And it means everything. Attractiveness…

Guy #163 – Being a dominant kiss-ass…

Being a psychologist who spends a lot of time in places where gays get naked, I…

Guy #150 and #151 – Adam and Steve and some Guy they met on Grindr…

Put simply, the concept of threesomes tends to warp common boundaries people might have for what…

Guy #144 – Having an actual relationship…

The closest thing I ever got to having a relationship was going through an actual relationship…

Guy #131 – The ring beard…

Blessed with everything but a plan or even the slightest idea of what I wanted to…

Guy #130 – The Lay After…

My mother and I never spoke much about my private life, though I did manage to…

Guys #125, #126, #127, #128 and #129 – Floating…

Baggage. We all carry it. And like drug mules bluffing their way through customs, we all…

Guy #119 – A vacation from my vanity…

As a gay Guy who frequents places where I face the scrutiny and judgment of other…

Guy #118 – Dating alone together…

Sex is like food. Whether it’s caviar, a Happy Meal or anything in between, sex is…

Guy #112 – Gayspeak.

Social awkwardness is like quicksand: The more you fight it, the more you drown. I drowned…

Guy #110 – The Oscar to my Elmo…

Sometimes life gives you lemons. Lemonwise, 2012 was not a great year for me. My mother…

Guy #107 – The former model…

Not too long ago scientists discovered an Earth-like planet about 490 light years away. That means…

Guy #106 – Damn that beauty…

It is said that looks don’t matter. This is of course the biggest lie since Bill…

Guy #104 – Best pity sex ever.

Sexting. Like smelling your fingers or wanting to kill your neighbor, sexting is one of those…