Guy #194 – The cutest Guy in the sauna…

In a gay sauna, there are three types of Guys: The nontouchables, or people I don’t…

Guy #152 and #153 – Gay dating and the true meaning of the word ‘No’…

As is to be expected from a gay Guy over 30, rejection is an integral part…

Guy #148 – Three out of three…

If planet Earth houses 7 billion people, it’s safe to say a few hundred million of…

Guy #131 – The ring beard…

Blessed with everything but a plan or even the slightest idea of what I wanted to…

Guy #119 – A vacation from my vanity…

As a gay Guy who frequents places where I face the scrutiny and judgment of other…

Guys #114, #115, #116 and #117 – The most dangerous drug of all…

Drugs will forever be a part of our lives, whether it’s nicotine, weed, alcohol, cocaine, XTC,…

Guy #89 – Divide and conquer…

When I lived in Suriname, South America, I wasn’t the only white Guy in town. I…

Guy #49 – Knocking on heaven’s door…

In October of 2009 I landed a job that required me to spend a few months…

Guy #34 – Hunter or prey…

In the gay scene it doesn’t really matter if you’re top or bottom. Hunter or prey,…

Guy #16 – Mi casa…

I know enough Portuguese to get a guy to have sex with me. Two words, to…

Guy #6 – Sex with chocolate chip cookies…

Did I mention Guy #5 had a boyfriend? Well, he did and a few days after…

Girl #1 – The perfect daughter-in-law

Between the ages of 16 and 24, my life consisted of falling for girls I imagined…

Guy #4 – Thirty seconds of horror…

If you start exploring the world of gay sex, you can’t avoid that moment when a…

Guy #3 – In the Oval Office…

When a Guy is in a committed relationship with a woman and has sex with another…

Guy #2 – A much needed shower…

If there’s one thing that sets humans apart from animals, it’s post-orgasmic guilt. It’s that moment…

Guy #1 – If the shoe fits…

The first one is always special, as special as it can be disappointing. One might say…