In a gay sauna, there are three types of Guys: The nontouchables, or people I don’t want to touch no … More
Tag: Gay scene
Guy #152 and #153 – Gay dating and the true meaning of the word ‘No’…
As is to be expected from a gay Guy over 30, rejection is an integral part of my daily routine. … More
Guy #148 – Three out of three…
If planet Earth houses 7 billion people, it’s safe to say a few hundred million of those people are Guys … More
Guy #131 – The ring beard…
Blessed with everything but a plan or even the slightest idea of what I wanted to do with my life, … More
Guy #119 – A vacation from my vanity…
As a gay Guy who frequents places where I face the scrutiny and judgment of other gay Guys, I try … More
Guys #114, #115, #116 and #117 – The most dangerous drug of all…
Drugs will forever be a part of our lives, whether it’s nicotine, weed, alcohol, cocaine, XTC, roofies, poppers, ketamine, speed … More
Guy #89 – Divide and conquer…
When I lived in Suriname, South America I wasn’t the only white Guy in town. I befriended a Guy who … More
Guy #49 – Knocking on heaven’s door…
In October of 2009 I landed a job that required me to spend a few months in … More
Guy #34 – Hunter or prey…
In the gay scene it doesn’t really matter if you’re top or bottom. Hunter or prey, … More
Guy #16 – Mi casa…
I know enough Portuguese to get a guy to have sex with me. Two words, to … More
Guy #6 – Sex with chocolate chip cookies…
ABOUT THE AUTHOR AND THIS SITE PREVIOUS GUYS Did I mention Guy #5 had a boyfriend? Well, he … More
Girl #1 – The perfect daughter-in-law
Between the ages of 16 and 24, my life consisted of falling for girls I imagined … More
Guy #4 – Thirty seconds of horror…
If you start exploring the world of gay sex, you can’t avoid that moment when a guy starts taking … More
Guy #3 – In the Oval Office…
When a guy is in a committed relationship with a woman and has sex with another guy … More
Guy #2 – A much needed shower…
If there’s one thing that sets humans apart from animals, it’s post-orgasmic guilt. It’s that moment one sobers … More
Guy #1 – If the shoe fits…
The first one is always special, as special as it can be disappointing. One might say I did Guy #1 … More