Guy #194 – The cutest Guy in the sauna…

In a gay sauna, there are three types of Guys: The nontouchables, or people I don’t want to touch no … More

Guy #152 and #153 – Gay dating and the true meaning of the word ‘No’…

As is to be expected from a gay Guy over 30, rejection is an integral part of my daily routine. … More

If planet Earth houses 7 billion people, it’s safe to say a few hundred million of those people are Guys … More

Blessed with everything but a plan or even the slightest idea of what I wanted to do with my life, … More

As a gay Guy who frequents places where I face the scrutiny and judgment of other gay Guys, I try … More

Drugs will forever be a part of our lives, whether it’s nicotine, weed, alcohol, cocaine, XTC, roofies, poppers, ketamine, speed … More

When I lived in Suriname, South America I wasn’t the only white Guy in town. I befriended a Guy who … More

In October of 2009 I landed a job that required me to spend a few months in … More

In the gay scene it doesn’t really matter if you’re top or bottom. Hunter or prey, … More

I know enough Portuguese to get a guy to have sex with me. Two words, to … More

ABOUT THE AUTHOR AND THIS SITE PREVIOUS GUYS Did I mention Guy #5 had a boyfriend? Well, he … More

Between the ages of 16 and 24, my life consisted of falling for girls I imagined … More

If you start exploring the world of gay sex, you can’t avoid that moment when a guy starts taking … More

When a guy is in a committed relationship with a woman and has sex with another guy … More

If there’s one thing that sets humans apart from animals, it’s post-orgasmic guilt. It’s that moment one sobers … More

The first one is always special, as special as it can be disappointing. One might say I did Guy #1 … More