Guy #164 – Attractiveness means nothing. And everything.

Here’s the thing with being attractive: It doesn’t really mean anything. And it means everything. Attractiveness is a conflict in and of itself. In many ways I feel I’ve been blessed with my looks, as I generally receive decent amounts of attention from Guys. At the same time I get rejected all the time. While […]

Guy #163 – Being a dominant kiss-ass…

Being a psychologist who spends a lot of time in places where gays get naked, I see insecurity the way that kid from The Sixth Sense sees dead people: Insecurity is everywhere. It doesn’t know it’s insecure, although in the end it kind of does and for some reason I feel it’s my duty to […]

Guy #150 and #151 – Adam and Steve and some Guy they met on Grindr…

Put simply, the concept of threesomes tends to warp common boundaries people might have for what they consider normal, acceptable or decent. This is true for people who shy away from threesomes as much as it holds up for those that engage in them. You can’t enjoy a threesome if you’re not sexually confident. This […]

Guy #91 – Abs and brains.

People reading this blog probably would’t think of me as the relationship type. The format of my relationships is overtly sexual most of the time. While I’m open to the possibility of a commitment, the thing I’m actively looking for is a connection in any way, shape or form or position. I met Guy #168 […]

Guy #89 – Divide and conquer…

When I lived in Suriname, South America I wasn’t the only white Guy in town. I befriended a Guy who was like me in many ways: He was a hunter, attracted to Latinos as I was, he made sure sex played an important role in his life, he used sex to cope with his insecurity, […]

Guy #80 – All about the abs…

Guy #80 had killer abs. In fact, his entire body was a cover of Men’s Health. His penis was as Asian as the rest of him though. Also, Guy #80 struck me as one of the loneliest individuals I’ve ever come across. The two of us first met each other at an all male twink […]

Guy #52 – LOST…

Wisconsin gets dark at night. Being the hazel eyed slightly toned latino twink that he was, Guy #52 was my kind of hot in each and every way. I simply had to meet up with him and make my dream of having sex with him come true. He hadn’t shown that much enthusiasm for our […]

Six weeks of celibacy…

      If you leave home for a long time, home will not change much during your absence. You will. When I entered the living room of my mother’s house for the first time in two and a half years, it was filled with family, friends and former colleagues. My mother had thrown me […]

Guy #46 – The massage…

        A good massage is quite literally like a trip to heaven, a place of infinite bliss and carelessness. A good massage makes you forget about your worries and your imperfections. I could probably enjoy a plane crash if someone gave me a good backrub all the way down. If I ever […]

Guy #32 and #33 – Stroke that ego…

        There’s one very simple moral to every story here on 168guys.com: Love and sex are inseparable. If you’re looking for sex you’re looking for love. While quite a few gay people told me they enjoy reading this blog, some have trouble accepting its message. When I look around it’s as if […]

Guy #22 – My looks matter too…

        It can’t be denied some of the guys you find on Craigslist are hot. Guy #22 was one of those guys. In fact, he was the hottest guy I had ever been with up till then. And I was already at a point where that meant something. At first I considered […]

Guy #7 – Like Oliver Twist at an all-you-can-eat buffet…

      Imagine living in a country with only one gay nightclub, anonomously cornered between a gas station and the country’s only Pizza Hut. And you’re pretty much the only white guy there. You’ll find that of all the people you meet, the vast majority wants to have sex with you. To me this […]

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