Guy #152 and #153 – Gay dating and the true meaning of the word ‘No’…

As is to be expected from a gay Guy over 30, rejection is an integral part…

Guy #149 – The most forgettable of them all…

Do you really remember all the people you ever had sex with? It’s a question I…

Guy #144 – Having an actual relationship…

The closest thing I ever got to having a relationship was going through an actual relationship…

Guy #139 – So sometimes hot Guys are into me…

When I met Guy #22, he was the most beautiful Guy I’d ever been with.When I…

Guy #138 – The hotness that is clinical depression…

A few years ago my father died. I never dealt with it very well. Sometimes I…

Guy #136 and #137 – The ones who inspired this blog…

It’s not always easy not being the relationship type, especially when there are very few gay…

Guy #134 – Shame…

Guy #134 made me realize something. Car sex is depressing, if not depressingly impractical. Though I…

Guy #132 – The marine.

A question I get asked on a daily basis is whether I’m top or bottom. At…

Guy #130 – The Lay After…

My mother and I never spoke much about my private life, though I did manage to…

Guys #125, #126, #127, #128 and #129 – Floating…

Baggage. We all carry it.And like drug mules bluffing their way through customs, we all lie…

Guy #123 – The reason I’m on Grindr…

These days it says the following on my Grindr profile: I will have sex with you…

Guy #122 – The spoiled brat…

Like most men never subjected to radiation poisoning I have hair growing out of my body…

Guy #121 – The dorminant one…

Dominance. When it comes to sex, some people like to dominate. Others like to be dominated.…

Guy #119 – A vacation from my vanity…

As a gay Guy who frequents places where I face the scrutiny and judgment of other…

Guy #118 – Dating alone together…

Sex is like food. Whether it’s caviar, a Happy Meal or anything in between, sex is…

Guy #113 – The one I told my mother about…

My mother and I never talked about my love life. We maintained a silently agreed upon…

Guy #111 – Downton Shabby.

Guy #111 lived in with his landlord, an 84 four year old friend who had somewhere…

Guy #110 – The Oscar to my Elmo…

Sometimes life gives you lemons. Lemonwise, 2012 was not a great year for me. My mother…