Guy #143 – For the very first time…

I guess we all adjust to the ones we’re with. Or maybe I just lack the…

Guy #142 – The awkwardness of dating people the normal way…

Old fashioned as it may seem, sometimes you meet people you will have sex with on…

Guy #140 and #141 – Letting go of the shallow…

The one thing I remember most from my dates with Guys #140 and #141 is the…

Guy #139 – So sometimes hot Guys are into me…

When I met Guy #22, he was the most beautiful Guy I’d ever been with.When I…

Guy #138 – The hotness that is clinical depression…

A few years ago my father died. I never dealt with it very well. Sometimes I…

Guy #136 and #137 – The ones who inspired this blog…

It’s not always easy not being the relationship type, especially when there are very few gay…

Guy #135 – The best sex. Yet.

The last time I had sex with Guy #135 I whispered “I love you” seconds before…

Guy #134 – Shame…

Guy #134 made me realize something. Car sex is depressing, if not depressingly impractical. Though I…

Guy #133 – On the beach…

When you live on a tropical island and use Grindr to meet up with Guys, it’s…

Guy #132 – The marine.

A question I get asked on a daily basis is whether I’m top or bottom. At…

Guy #131 – The ring beard…

Blessed with everything but a plan or even the slightest idea of what I wanted to…

Guy #130 – The Lay After…

My mother and I never spoke much about my private life, though I did manage to…

Guys #125, #126, #127, #128 and #129 – Floating…

Baggage. We all carry it.And like drug mules bluffing their way through customs, we all lie…

Guy #124 – Let the dolphin speak…

Sometimes Guys on Grindr fail to get the message: That he’s just not that into you.…

Guy #122 – The spoiled brat…

Like most men never subjected to radiation poisoning I have hair growing out of my body…

Guy #121 – The dorminant one…

Dominance. When it comes to sex, some people like to dominate. Others like to be dominated.…

Guy #120 – Like a virgin…

I remember the first time I ever stepped into a gay bar. What terrified me most…

Guy #119 – A vacation from my vanity…

As a gay Guy who frequents places where I face the scrutiny and judgment of other…