Guy #149 – The most forgettable of them all…

Do you really remember all the people you ever had sex with? It’s a question I…

Guy #148 – Three out of three…

If planet Earth houses 7 billion people, it’s safe to say a few hundred million of…

Guy #147 – Pretty woman…

I first saw Pretty Woman a full decade before I became sexually active. I particularly remember…

Guy #146 – Why do gay saunas have to be so dark?

Why do gay saunas have to be so dark? Dimly lit hallways, faint beams of light…

Guy #145 – Look at me not being shallow!

Sometimes I like to look at human beings as I imagine aliens would. Aliens, in my…

Guy #144 – Having an actual relationship…

The closest thing I ever got to having a relationship was going through an actual relationship…

Guy #143 – For the very first time…

I guess we all adjust to the ones we’re with. Or maybe I just lack the…

Guy #142 – The awkwardness of dating people the normal way…

Old fashioned as it may seem, sometimes you meet people you will have sex with on…

Guy #140 and #141 – Letting go of the shallow…

The one thing I remember most from my dates with Guys #140 and #141 is the…

Guy #139 – So sometimes hot Guys are into me…

When I met Guy #22, he was the most beautiful Guy I’d ever been with.When I…

Guy #138 – The hotness that is clinical depression…

A few years ago my father died. I never dealt with it very well. Sometimes I…

Guy #136 and #137 – The ones who inspired this blog…

It’s not always easy not being the relationship type, especially when there are very few gay…

Guy #135 – The best sex. Yet.

The last time I had sex with Guy #135 I whispered “I love you” seconds before…

Guy #134 – Shame…

Guy #134 made me realize something. Car sex is depressing, if not depressingly impractical. Though I…

Guy #133 – On the beach…

When you live on a tropical island and use Grindr to meet up with Guys, it’s…

Guy #132 – The marine.

A question I get asked on a daily basis is whether I’m top or bottom. At…

Guy #131 – The ring beard…

Blessed with everything but a plan or even the slightest idea of what I wanted to…

Guy #130 – The Lay After…

My mother and I never spoke much about my private life, though I did manage to…